So often I am told by NeW SubJecTs that, “I have never cheated on my wife.”
Hearing this absolutely pains me, because as far as I’m concerned, cumming to see me does not constitute cheating!
What I do consider cheating, IS the possibility that this pOOr fellOw (whose partner is not really cumfortable with performing OraL SeX, and he KnowinG this FeeLs uncumfortable EvEn ASKinG) could have LiVeD his entire life without EvEr exPeriEncinG an OVER THE TOP BLOW JOB!!!
As a LadY of GreaT InsiGhT with ReSpecT to a man’s InnatE biOLOgical HarBourinGs, I will be exploring the ToPiC of InfiDeLitY, how it relates to today’s culture and U!!!
In order to have a meaningful discussion around that which is UniVersaLLy ForBiddeN yet UndeNiablY PracTiceD … FiDeLiTy, we must begin by establishing the fact that men have a much stronger sex drive and need for ReLeAsE than women.
Testosterone, the “male hormone” produced by the testes acts like FueL 2 the SeX DrivE! A man’s body is biologically hardwired to seek out a variety of sex acts and multiple partners.
Without question, men entertain more sexual thoughts and fantasies than women. Men initiate sex routinely and seLdom refuse it. If given the opportunity 2 BusT a LoaD, men will LeaP at it! Turn the tabLes, and in most cases a woman would simply say no.
Women find it easier than men to go without sex. Contradictorily, men need IT like they need 2 BreaThe!!! Men ReQuiRe their sexual nEEds being granted or they go dOwn right StiR CrazY!
This inequitable distribution has lead men 2 masturbate more than women – ALOT more. And not just thOse in sexLESS marriages.
SexLess unions, defined as those who engage in a sex act ten times a year or less, account for some 30 per cent of couples.
Infidelity doesn’t end marriages, people and their perceptions do. It’s the unreasonable expectations, the laying claim to and restricting a man’s primal needs while he ever so loyally endeavours to meet those of his spouse, children and family. Interpretation: socialized victimhood.
I do not necessariLy advocate cheating, I advocate an evolutionary theory that people ought to experience their bodies as they do food. Being given the encouragement to ExpLorE, get a taste of what they like and how their body’s respond to various stimuli and states of ecstasy without OveR INduLginG!
Today’s culture tells us to end our reLationships and simpLy move on to anoTheR and aNOthEr and AnotheR. How does that mEEt the DE-MANds of of the PeoPle, mOnOgAmY or SoCieTy? It fails to.
While there is no substitute for a gOOd romp with someone you’ve been in LovE with and RocKed each other’s worLds 4 YearS, there is something to be said for BaLaNcE!
The idea that one person can be all things to another over an entire life span is PoPoSteRoUs!!! In fact ReSeaRcH concLudes otherWISE. ExtRaMariTaL EngagemenT can be said to deLiver the following:
Rev UP the sex in your marriage
bOOst self esteem and realize you are desirable
Get your swagger on and discover what an awesome lover you are
Be reminded that sex can be looked forward to, fun and exhilarating
Rest and Relax like you haven’t in years
Revisit how much you love your wife
So much mystery still surrounds our bioLogy and make up. The MaN’s sex drive is LargeLy misunderstOOd but linked to just about every organ in his body with the ability to promote the following:
Good heart and blood flow
Bone and structural integrity
Muscle tone and agility
Aids in digestion
Stress relief, dopamine and serotonin
Aids in sleeping
Prostate & Cycling of JunK
I’m certain women would not only condone but demand:
daiLy blow jobs for their husbands if they knew it would keep him aLive and with her LonGer!
Casual, meaningless sex to CurE ALL tHAt seXuaL FrusTraTiOn that’s been buiLding up every MoMenT of the dAy while INcreasinG his DeSiRe of himself and her!!!
Hot StranGe sex for her ParTneR knowing it would buiLd his ConFidencE, CareeR ProsPects and PockeT bOOk!
The truth of the matter is, what’s most important at the end of the day? SeX and Disease (heart & diabetes) are heavily linked and if a partnership is truly based on Love and MuTuaL interests, the obvious conclusion would be that a man MUST have the FREEDOM to ASK FOR and EXPECT 2 have HIS INNATE NEEDS MET! Without a DoubT, my MAN will!!!